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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm a little conservative type of a person and i have high ambitions in my life. But intense sexual thoughts and unrealistic fantasies distracting from working towards achieving my goalsI think sex outside marriage is morally wrong and I've decided to save myself for marriage but as im working toward my career goals i have to postpone my marriage for at least another 2 years.please advise me how I can get away from my distracting thoughts and direct all my concentration on to other aspect of life...Thank you in advance for your time and thoughts
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2011): Thank you for your thought.
No I’m not engaged and I don’t have a girlfriend either. I have decided whole heartedly to lose my virginity only to my wife. I think I should wait for that very special movement. I just have to find some strategies to cope with the situation. but would like to know if there is anyone who has passed through a similar kind of a problems and the way he/ she handled it.
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NB- I’m the original poster of this question..
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reader, krit +, writes (30 April 2011):
 Men's sex drive is at it's peak in theirs late teens and early 20's. So it's normal for you to have the urges that you're going through. I bet most of men of your age won't be feeling any different from you also. Sex outside marriage is wrong, but you are not married yet. whom are you saving yourself for??? Your fiancé or your girlfriend??? Well If you have any, then I would suggest just to wait. But if you don't have them, then go and have some fun. At least if you have it now then you won't feel that you have missed out in this part of life after your married and won't need to cheat on your wife or anyone else for that matter. It won't make you a dirty person but would help you to stay clean and faithful with your wife. Different people have different views on this topic and I respect all of them. Just go with your instincts and follow your heart..... :~)
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