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writes:My girlfriend was dumped by a guy bcuz the guy felt she was cheating on him with me and another guy. I was trying to steal her from him...but we only talked as friends. The other guy was trying the same thing but I beat him. she started liking me right after he dumped her. I ended up getting in a relationship with her. Does that make me a rebound boyfriend? after 4 great month with her she broke up with me for unknown reasons through txt message. after a week I noticed she liked someone else and I assume that is why she broke up with me?! She is getting in a relationship with the guy that I beat for her after the first guy broke up with her. does that consider him as a rebound boyfriend after me?Some of my friends think she has committment issues?! did she really love me if she said she did?She has gone from guy to guy in all of her relationships!I am still in love with her and really truely care for her... I really miss her...I have liked her since the first time I layed eyes on her! What should I do to get her back? should I be worried about this new relationship with the guy that I beat for her?
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reader, Zandra  +, writes (29 April 2011):
 You say that her boyfriend broke up with her because she was close to you and this other guy, and because you were tempting her, seems to me she doesn't know what she wants, after being accused of being with you she actually goes with you, then gets with the other guy.
When your young I feel its normal to go from one relationship to the next. If you truly care for her let her know how you feel, she may not be ready to commit, if thats the case there is no point waiting around for her, if she genuinely likes you seeing that you have moved on will make her realise what she has missed.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (29 April 2011):
 I think she has commitment issues. She likes the conquest so after a relationship starts she loses interest. She picks the guys whom she can do this to. You shouldn't get her back. You can't anyway because you had become her prize before so she doesn't see the point. It's all an illusion that she is a great catch because all the guys are after her. Really, all of you are trying to be alpha males, trying to win. People have commitment issues because others allow them to continue to act like they have no empathy.
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