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writes:so my sister was with this guy for a year. She cheated on him and he broke up with her. She moved on, as did he. I always liked this guy while they were together. I told him i liked him and he said he liked me2. A year AFTER they broke up, (she was with a new guy) him and I still were interested in eachother, so we started a relationship. I've been hiding this from my sister for the last 5 months. I am beginning to fall in love with this man (I am 20, he is 26),My sister and I are not close.we dont ever spend time 2gether like friends, I've attempted 2 be close with her, she doesnt think sisters should be "friends". I love this man and he loves me as well. He is the honestly the greatest person i've ever met. I could honestly see myself marrying this man. If our relationship reaches 1 year, and we still want 2 be together, we plan 2 tell my sister about our relationship. Will she have a right2 be mad after they have been broken up for about 3 years? She moved on, but I'm nervous about how she might react. Any opinions?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 April 2011):
 Be honest with her, she BETTER hear it from you then anyone else.
If you can do that... you are SOL.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (29 April 2011):
 Um if I were to find out that my sister was dating one of my exes behind my back I would be furious.
Be honest with her. She cheated on him, she might not care. I personally don't agree with dating sister/friend's exes, but to each their own and it sounds like she is very far over him as he is her. They were together however for a year and as her sister, you should be honest with her.
I think she will be more pissed off that you were lying to her for an entire year than the fact that you are dating her ex.
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reader, llifton +, writes (29 April 2011):
 yes she has a right to be upset. because you're giving her a right. that right is you lying to her. just tell her the truth so she doesn't feel like such an idiot. for all you know, she may not even care. and if she does, at least you'll know you've been honest and whether you choose to respect her wishes of you two dating or not, you can go to sleep at night knowing you're not lying to her. but that's just me.
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