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Why do men prefer to break up in a text rather than in person?

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Question - (29 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I would like to know y men cannot break up face to face... y is it that they find it easier to. Txt it... my bf broke up with me yesterday cuz he has insecurity issues beleives ima cheat on him and gets really sad and upset just him thinking bout it. Cuz I have done it n the past with my ex husband... but I know he really loves me cuz he always shout it to the world when we use to go to places ..he wuz very happy with me and I could always see the love n his eyes..but he says he has to leave me cuz is the best thing to do..am really heart broken cuz we both r n love with each other but I accepted his decision... but I want to know when I asked him for us to meet so he can tell me n person he replied by sayn.. if we seen each other we won't b able to let go..I know it might b obvious but am just so blinded by my hurt I just can't c it..

So by him sayn that did he really not want to break up?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (29 April 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI've never had anyone break up with me by text. IN fact, my current boyfriend made me swear if I ever break up with him I'm going to do it face to face not by phone not by text not by email...

breaking up by anything other than face to face is cowardly

as for not being face to face, trust me if i could manage to not see my soon to be ex husband that I don't want to be married to any more I would be happier. Seeing him dreges up old feelings I hate having to deal with...

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (29 April 2011):

I've never broken up with anyone by text. Usually that's a sign of someone who isn't worth your time. I'm pretty sure that's the problem with this useless ex of yours - he hasn't the respect to do it in person, nor the nerve. Leave the coward alone and move on with your life.

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