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writes:I have been talking to this guy for 2 weeks and we hung out only twice. The past couple days he have been txting me and at the end of the day, asks me if I wanna talk on the phone later at night. But I haven't heard from him allday yesterday. Is he waiting for me to make the move first sometimes ? And the plan was we might hangout today he has to check his schedule, but I still haven't heard from him, wat should I do? Txt him? Or wait. I know this sounds stupid,but am at the stage of where I'm kinda sprung and at the same time, don't want to let down my pride. I wana keep it cool, but I'm goin crazy!! Lol Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2011): He could be checking to see if you like him especially if he was the one initiating contact all the time. If so wait a couple of days and send him a txt, hopefully he'll txt back, but it is a good idea to txt him first now and again it shows you're interested. If he doesnt txt back or continues to txt back late at night, well then i would see him as a player. By txting late at night it kinda shows he's not really interested in your day, but wants to maintain contact in the hope that he can still get sex. Talking late at night on the phone is the same, he might eventually try to have phone sex and before you would realise, the whole thing has become all about sex. so just be careful there.However, he may have just been very busy lately with work, does his job require him to work that late, that he can only call you at night? well you would know, but time will tell, suss out this change in behaviour, and if it has become a new routine to only txt late at night, well then i would ditch him. Until then don't get too emotionally involved until you know what you're dealing with.Hope that helps.
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