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female
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36-40,
*ovemeright11
writes:What do I do? This women wont back off and leave my boyfriend alone she is a married women but seems to have some interest in my boyfriend in particular like a crush or something. She is always drawing pictures for him, she comments on everything he post on facebook sometimes before me his own gf, its like she is waiting to see what he post daily on facebook. Last Friday she was over at his house with her husband to play card and since they all seemed to have some interesting night I missed she texted him the next day for almost 3hours even when he told her he was with me she said she would leave him alone then started picking at the subject of whether I like her or not instead of just leaving him alone she dragged there conversation out taking up all my time I was trying to have with my bf. I am so pissed off cause this women knew what she was doing and when i tried to explain to my bf about how this women is to flirty and stole his attention for the day even if he did not see it she did but he thought i was being silly. My boyfriend knows I don't like her but yet she drew another picture for him today and posted it to facebook and instead of him just say thanks thats nice he said wow i never you you were so good at drawing. Gave her a big juciy complement and she gave him one back of "oh thanks hun.Hope u have a good friday.. I totally need to go to another game night.. Draw a nice pic while u guys play ;)" Let me explain the first reason I don't like her or want her near my man: about 2 or 3 months ago this women was having a conversation openly on facebook wall with my bf back and forth about some video game characters first it was Innocent then she turned the conversation sexual saying she would look at him all hot and turned on then slap him cause he had been a bad boy. that kinda talk he innocently was talking to her she turned it sexual and this is the line she crossed that pissed me off so please tell me what should I do about this piece of low life women that wont back off and just leave him alone. He thinks I am just being a crazy women but i feel I have a right to be with this women in my life for some reason. Please help
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 April 2011):
 I guess if you have spoke to your boyfriend and told him how you feel well then there is nothing more you can do. If he still wants to hang out with her and her husband and talk to her well then am afraid that there is nothing really that you can do. You say that she robbed three hours of your time with him but equally that is just as much of your boyfriends fault as it is hers he should have put his phone away and showed you how much he cared. Maybe he gets a thrill from thinking that a married woman has a crush on him or maybe he does just see it as pure platonic and this woman actually might just be lonely. Whatever her reasons are you need to be able to trust your boyfriend, and if you cant do that well then there is no point in the relationship.
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