Cheated on husband, now want him back?

A female age 41-50, *ure-bure writes:

Hullo there, I am a married woman with a 2 year old son who doesn't know what to do next. The thing is I cheated on my husband two times and I was caught out by my husband. I truly love him and badly need him in my life. He was angry at first, but then bought me flowers and said he had forgiven me. Thing is, this guy I cheated on with tried to chat with me and two days after my husband out of the blue asked why I had contacted him? I was confused about how he knew I chatted with him much as I made it clear with the other guy that that was the end of any contact with him in the chat!!! I think my husband is a tech wizard, he always gets to know a lot of things even if it is after a year. He will remind u how u did this and that on the internet last year! He is truly a lovely husband and a gentleman whom any woman would be proud of. I badly need him, we sleep in the same bed but now for two months, he hasn't even touched me, kissed me or did anything. Whenever I try to touch him, he is lifeless, just keeps quiet and sleeps on. I wish he could talk to me. Please, I know I have done the most awful thing, but I have said sorry and he just can't forgive me much as he continues acting as if nothing like that ever happened.

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