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writes:Why is first love so hard to get over? It's been 15 months since my girlfriend dumped but I still find it tough getting over here. Every night, I see here appearing in my dreams. any help from you guys in this regard would truly be appreciated. Thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, rockshredder  +, writes (30 April 2011):
 Hey man! We are on the same boat. I was also from Pakistan. 2 months ago when I moved to USA, my grlfriend and my 1st love who was my everything, DUMPED ME. We were together for 4 years. It has been 2 months and I still get dreams of her running after her and kissing her. I don't know how to. I have got a job here, my family, respect in my job from people but still that void is there. All hope I get is from people telling me that someday someone will hurt her back and then she will realise. And I just wait for that day now. She is already with a guy whom she used to curse infront of me.
My advice is that:
Love yourself now only and no one else. Cause I know that we are worth loving. Take care.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 April 2011):
 I guess that everybody is different and it takes all different lengths of time for our heart to heal. First love is extremely hard to get over because you have nothing else to compare her to and you have never had feelings for anybody else either so its only her you think about.
What have you done to help yourself try and get over her? Have you blocked all contact details. Got rid of photos of her and reminders? Also its good to get out and meet new people.
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reader, KeighleySky  +, writes (29 April 2011):
 aww honey, it isnt just first love thats hard to get over. If you're ever truly in love when it ends its har to get over.
The remedy is time, and lots and lots of pampering. Spend time on yourself, concentrate on yourself, you can be a little selfish for now.
I know its hard, i really do understand but this is just osmething you have to get over with yourself.
I hope you get happier soon, no matter how long it takes :)
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