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writes:Hey, so I'm new to dearcupid but you seem very helpful, so I've decided to ask my question. Basically I have a friend who is a boy and he has a girlfriend. His girlfriend has gone on holiday and he misses her loads, he is talking to me loads via text at the moment. Well he asked me if I was coming out this week (while his gf is away) and I want to go but it seems a bit strange because he has a girlfriend. What makes this worse is he fancied me for years before he got with his girlfriend. I don't know what to do because I do like him loads as a friend. Sorry that's really long, please help me. Love Charlotte xx
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 Well unless he does anything inappropriate then there is no reason not to go out, you are friends and it is ok for you to spend time with him!
He has not told you he likes you, he has not made a move on you.....nothing has actually happened yet so there really is nothng to worry about. All he has done is told you he misses his girlfriend, and is wondering if you are going out this week.
If he starts flirting or trying it on with you then that is when you tell him no and to back off, as you cant get with someone that has a girlfriend. But for now, he has done nothing that indicates he likes you more than a friend, he is talking about his girlfriend with you which is a clear sign he is very happy with her and just views you as a friend, someone who he can talk to.
So try not to worry about this, nothing has happened and you are just friends. You can spend time with him, that is perfectly fine. From the sounds of things he is not interested in you so you have nothing to worry about.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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