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For the first time I'm scared! How do you build the bridge between sex and foreplay?

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Question - (18 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2011)
A male Germany age 30-35, *antheman92 writes:

ok people,

after years of being used and played with from girls it seems like ive finally found the girl of my dreams.

we're together now and it couldnt work out any better than it is. and im like reeeeeeeeally in love with her, the feelings i have for her are unbelievable, i never thought i would every be able to feel sth like this, especially after all the girls i was with before her.

well the problem is that were both virgins and im pretty sure that its not going to last for long.

im literally scared of the first time, because im scared that ill mess it up or that my penis is too big or too small.

i mean hell i dont even know how to make the first step.

i mean weve done everything in bed except for sex, but i dont know how to build the bridge between foreplay and sex.

just tell me what you think people.

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A male reader, Dantheman92 Germany +, writes (19 April 2011):

Dantheman92 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Dantheman92 agony auntok thx for your opinion ;) I appreciate it

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (18 April 2011):

dirtball agony auntThere's no rush. When it's meant to happen, it will. Your first time will likely not be anything grand. For most of us it isn't because we don't know what we're doing. The thing is, if you're with the right person you'll both want to learn how to please each other, and you'll spend time practicing. ;-)

Let it happen at it's own pace. It's also ok to tell her you're nervous. I'm sure she is too.

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