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*oxochrystal
writes:Recently my partner and I broke up, but we still live together, he goes through my phone and expects me to have a threesome with him and one of my friends (who's a girl) He has been treating me a little child lately...xo. Here's more infoI have started to enjoy another male's company....but my ex/ boyfriend, i dont know any more, has gotten a little over reactive about it, to the point he comes to my work to make sure i dont text this other person.......he has become so over protective about me and doesn't let me do anything......and if you read my other question..you will think, what the hell am i doing.....well the thing the only thing that is stopping me is we live together and we both have the house together i couldnt pay. For my own place...xx
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reader, svf +, writes (19 April 2011):
 Please get an AVO, I am worried about you. They take domestic violence very seriously in Australia - especially in the courts. He is stalking you, harassing you, abusing you and manipulating you. I know it is very hard to get out, but please try and ring the hotline. This may help: http://forums.our-place-online.net/index.php?showtopic=334You will HAVE to sell your place if you both own it together. But that is nothing compared to what he is doing to you emotionally. You deserve to be happy and it sounds like a really nice guy cares about you and is worried about you. Could you move in with him for awhile or stay at your parents place? What about the friend that he wanted you to have threesome with?And as for having a threesome, right now, this is the last thing you want or need! Who does he think he is - Gods gift to women? You can and WILL do much better than him, he is simply not worth it.Please take care of yourself, you are so young and there is more ahead of you than this. x
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 So he has you trapped and it's starting to get abusive.
You need to figure out what you need to do to get out of this mortgage and do it, then leave this guy as far behind you as possible. If he lays a hand on you, you need to call the police.
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reader, xoxochrystal +, writes (18 April 2011):
xoxochrystal is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys.....i spoke to my lawer and i cant do a thing bc we both own it and yer.....im sleeping in the bed room and he's in the other room....like i just dnt know what to do....i think my male friend had tryed to come over and check on me....but he told him basicllay to go away im his etc.....like wtf.....i cant deal with his shit amd now he has started to push me around and say really mean things to me....and the thing that suxks even more is that i dont really have many friemds to talk to because all my friends are his friends he made me push all mine away...xx
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 April 2011):
I think you need out of this relationship. He's way over the top if he's coming to your work to check your phone. If you can't afford your own place look for a friend, or adds for people looking for roommates. You have options if you look. This guy is bad news.
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reader, Drew21  +, writes (18 April 2011):
 Eh, i guess i would ask do you have any friends or family that you could go and crash with for awhile? It sounds like you REALLY need to get away from this guy as soon as possible. He sounds a bit nutty!
If you're broken up then he should have no say over who you spend your time talking to or being with. The fact that he thinks it's okay for HIM to have a relationship while you cannot is a real warning sign.
Are you looking into selling the house? I would probably talk to a lawyer to see what form of legal action is available to you in getting out from underneath that house!
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