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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 9 motnhs.i and my bf love each other like hell.recently my bf has gone to a new place to travel and to give exams with his friends.yesterday night he told that he enjoyed roaming at the malls and the girls of that place were very sexy.he said he was providing relief to his eyes.he also said that everytime a sexy girl goes he watched very carefully.i fail to understand whats the matter with him.is he trying to make me jealous(because im a jealous girl)?is it fair to do like this,because i dont stare guys in that way.but i dont want to tell my insecured feelings to my bf otherwise he will say that i dun trust him or i m overpossesive.plz tell me what he is doing is normal or is it a sign that he's bored of us?
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reader, lovelyeyes +, writes (18 April 2011):
First of all he's direspecting your feelings by telling u all of this. Yes its normal to check out others but he should keep it to himself. I think he's testing u to see how much he could do w/out u breaking up w/him. Now he prob thinks its ok to that to u. U do need to talk about this w/him and tell your hurt not jealous that he would say these other girls relieved his eyes. U need to tell him if he's not happy w/u then it should be over. If he doesn care about the relationship then u need to move on,cause this sounds like just the beggining of getting hurt. Good luck!
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