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writes:We have been together for nine years and have had a good sex life. But the thing is that I have to satisfy myself with the same sexual positions every time. My partner doesn't want to try new positions even after having a good sex drive. She wants to have sex in the same 'missionary' and 'spoons' position. Although both of us reach orgasm but I want to become more adventurous and she's reluctant. Please tell me how I can convince her to do so!
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reader, lakers_lover09  +, writes (19 April 2011):
Sit her down and express ur fantasies together! Its romantic and it gets her in the adventerous mood. really,,sit her down and dim the lights, tell her to express one of her mpst desired fantasies and act it out. Women think its so much sexier when men can entise them to b adventerous..give it a try
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reader, Angelbunny5  +, writes (19 April 2011):
Tell her"Baby i wanna try diffrent sex I'm tired of old ones.I'll make it as fun as possible."Thats all
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 April 2011):
 Why is she reluctant? What are you suggesting you try? Is there anything she'd be willing to try?
I think you need to tell her how much you love sex with her, and how much she turns you on. How you've wanted to try some things with her, but if she doesn't like them you never need to do them again. Tell her you're curious about them and want nothing more than to explore that curiousity with her.
Don't get extreme. Start small and build. If she does it make sure to give lots of positive reinforcement and thank her. Also, make sure to do things the way she likes still as well.
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