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Is it a waste of time to make things work with my older guy?

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Question - (18 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I'm in love with this guy 8 years older than me, we were gonna have sex last saturday but my mom wouldn't let me go out.. the thing is that im 16 and he's 24. I haven't told anyone but a few friends my status with this guy, I've given him head, we've hooked up, and mostly everything but sex and him fingering me because we haven't been in a good place to do it. But were not dating but were kinda together.. is this a waste to keep trying with him or should I keep working on it, I don't wanna because I'm not sure if he would wanna be public.. and its illegal. BUT he's told me he has feelings for me... HELP EVERYONE!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (18 April 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony aunthon do you realize he can go to jail for being sexual with you?

you need to wait till you are 18 to be with him. I'm sorry it sucks but it's for the best.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (18 April 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt Oh ,he has feelings, has he ?

Ok. Let him prove it to you. By waiting patiently that you reach the age of consent - and by starting dating you regularly.

What does it mean , " you are sort of together " ? If you are not dating, you are not together. And if he wants sex from you without being together, most probably he considers you just a young ( and disposable ) booty call.

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