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writes: My younger sister recently moved in with her life long friend "Katie", they are both 19. Katie has a 1 yr old son from her ex bf, whom is an a**. They dated all through out high school but he always played mind games with her. I have always looked at Katie liek another little sister (I'm 28) and always hated this guy. A few months ago my gf and I broke up and I moved in with my sister and Katie. At first it was just until I found a place then we decided it worked for all of us if I stayed. The longer I have been there I started seeing Katie in a new life, she is a sweet, smart amazing girl. Her ex shows up when it is convient for him, a few weeks ago he decided he wanted to hang out with his friends so Katie had no one to watch her daughter so I said I would. After class Katie and I went out for dinner and then just spent half the nigth talking. I am totally falling for this girl. I want to tell her how I feel but I dont wan tot make this uncomfortable for our living arrangement or for my sister. Should I tell my sister how I feel ? Since there is an age difference shoudl I just forget it?
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (18 July 2011):
don't forget it just coz of the age difference coz i don't think your ages matter - having a kid makes a 19 year old grow up anyway, probably why you get on so well coz she is mature.
you and your ex only broke up a few months ago though and you found yourself living with your sister and katie, so just be careful that what you are feeling is not rebound, or gratitude for being given a place to stay. how does katie feel about you? if you both are sure you want to start a relationship then that is you business. your sister loves you and she loves her friend, she will just have to accept things
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