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writes:Had a first date the other day. I didnt feel nervous talking to her, but im not sure whether thats because i might have not been interested in her, or whether the conversation was just too full on (we were talking about being materialistic and shopping and spending money on holidays and all that) During the date, it felt a little boring at times, and i felt the urge to look at my watch but i didnt, and the conversation sometimes didnt help with the attraction (she talked about a fallout with one of her friends we both noe). On one hand i want to think that at least shes honest and up front about things and the type of person she is, but on the other hand, im not used to someone whos so assertive. I didnt feel nervous though, and that could be because i might not have been so attracted to her. im not sureAfter the date though, i feel like i keep thinking about the conversations we had and whether it was abit full on for a first date. Thikning back, it seems like good qualities that shes showing (independance, assertiveness, having high goals and dreams), but also at the same time, i feel like im the smaller person if we were in a relationship. There and then on the date however, it didnt feel like it was the right thing to be talking about on a first date. Anyway, is it normal to think back on the date and her even though when i was there it felt like there was no attraction
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 April 2011):
 Of course it's normal. Sometimes attraction grows instead of being instant. Still, I don't think you were really into her.
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