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*OERGE001
writes:Dear All,I am 22yrs old single male. Its been almost one year since I graduated from university and now a few weeks back I finally found a good job. I had an year long affair with a girl during university and then we broke up after i found that that she was seeing another guy behind my back. Its been 3 years now since we separated and there has not been a single day that i do not think about her . However, now somehow i had managed to get my self together and started trying to become happy but i still feel a big hole inside me. Today i saw my ex girl friend at my work place and found out that she too works there. Now i am again sad , very sad infact. It seems as if the more i try to forget her the more the nature pushes me towards her. Now i really dont know that what will i do. I wonder will that big hole inside me ever fill up and will i ever get mental peace. I am very sad and angry at everything and i am asking why me ? why have i been chosen by nature to live with this consistent pain.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 April 2011):
 Because you dwell on it. You've been lamenting this relationship for 3 times longer than it lasted. That's incredibly unhealthy and I think you need to get yourself into some therapy.
What have you done to grieve this relationship? Have you let yourself grieve it? Have you talked to other women? Do you have friends who can help you?
She was one girl who cheated on you. That was shitty. It also means she's not worth your time or effort or emotional energy.
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