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Who do I pick when I want a child so badly?

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Question - (18 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2011)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok, I don't know what to do, obviously. So my question is, who do I pick? There is a really nice girl that says she loves me, and there is a girl I like a lot that also says she loves me, me and her have been dating for 4 months (on and off) and we both end up dating other people because we argue with each over and have short tempers. But she came out of no where and said that she wants to be my one and only, and if I propose that me and her can make a beautiful family. And I really want a child because I'm leaving for the marines and if I die, I want someone to carry on my blood line and mostly so that I can say, I made this human, this breathing living thing, with the woman I love. And the first girl I was talking about earlier said that she loves me and respects me with all the world, but we can't have a child together until we're married, and we don't have time for that before I leave. So please help me decide who I should go with. Thanks. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011):

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Im going to go with the girl that I been dating on and off, I'm going to marry her too. I'm sorry that you feel I'm too young for all of this, but I'm responsible enough to handle a child and my bride to be. Thanks for criticizing, it helped my decision.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011):

ur still a kid urself to be a daddy :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011):

How old are you? It says 13-15 and your are going into the military?

If you you really are 13-15 then don't have a baby. Thats absurd. You want to have a baby so you can leave it fatherless just so your last name will carry on? How selfish?

If your 18 same thing. Don't be so naive. Your going into the marines stop acting like that. Please don't get a girl pregnant. Those are all the wrong reasons to bring a human being into the world.

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