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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:There's a woman I like and we have gone out together a couple of times. I make a point of keeping in touch with this woman through e-mail and phone calls. She seems responsive to me and even encourages me to stay in touch, and she seems happy to meet and go out. However, I find that I am always the person who has to initiate everything. I am always the person to contact her, suggest we go out, and so forth. Sometimes I wish she would take the initiative and contact me or suggest we meet up. I often think it would be a "sign" that she really likes me if she would take the initiative and make contact.However, I continue to be the one who reaches out to her and it makes me feel that maybe she is not as interested in me as I am in her. I guess I am confused as to whether this woman just likes me to take the initiative, or if she doesn't really like me at all.Am I wasting my time? Confused in Toronto. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 Well you say that she responds well so that is a great sign. Alot of women lack the confidence in contacting a man first in case they drive him away. So it could just be a case that she doesnt like taking the first step. Unfortunately though she is not showing you that she is interested and I bet she hasnt even thought about it. Why dont you talk to her the next time you meet up and ask her where you stand. Goodluck.
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