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writes:Ok so my two nights ago at my 18th party I slept with my cousin, we had an amazing night together the whole night before that happened. and we were very close last year when he visited. appart from lat year i dont ever remember meeting him. we hadent saw each other since about 2years old. I realy think I love him and he hasnt said but I think he has strong feelings for me should I bring relationships up or not? wer both single.
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reader, CkritAgentMan  +, writes (4 May 2010):
I possibly disagree with EmoG. Depends on how close of cousins you are. If you're parents were siblings, or your grandparents are siblings or something along close lines like that then YES you are walking the incestuous lines. If however you are cousins little more than "on paper" and related way down the line, then I wouldn't worry about it. Honestly, here in America among the elder generations (WWII and previous) if you search geneaology very much you see such "down the line cousins" getting married as being a very very common occurance back then. It happend alot here because of the rural nature of our country before the boom and growth of the post war era. In many cases in such small populations chances are alot of people were distantly related somehow or another, especially when you consider the more common fact then that families were usually quite large with alot of offspring. Again, depends on the closeness (in genealogical terms) of your situation. CAM
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reader, The Gentle Man +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Its not that uncommon for cousins to end up in this situation, i've read more than my share here. It seems to be a caught up in the moment thing. You certainly aren't going to have an intimate relationship. You had a good night and i'd let it end there.
Im not going to give the whole wrong speech as im sure deep down you know it all already.
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reader, EmoGir0 +, writes (4 May 2010):
 This is wrong, hun. Your cousin is your family, whether you've met each other before or not. What happens if someone in your family finds out? You could get in trouble with the law. What if you got pregnant? It would cause major stress. You could even lose the child because of your similar genes. I don't think you should bring up a relationship. I don't think you bring up anything like sex to him again.
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