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anonymous
writes:For anyone out there who is gay/ lesbian/ bisexual, how did you first know, I think I am bi, I've crushed on and dated quite a few guys but, although I have never had a crush on a girl, I do have thoughts about kissing them, and on occasion have had dreams about having sex with them. What was it that made you certain about your sexuality?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2010): Hi there, I agree with the people who replied earlier. I also sometimes think about having sex with a girl, but I have a bf and I love him. I think it's just curiosity, since you know we're women anyway, right?!! we should know wot's going on around the world. lol :)
Even if you do it once, I don't think you can call urself a lesbian. Unless you like it and decide to have a gf for the rest of ur life., then ya definitely would have no doubts about being a bi/les.
So no worries.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 If you only dream of being with girls, but when your eyes are wide open you only look at boys and boys is what you are attractive too than most likely your not gay nor bi. Your probably curious and this is totaling normal.
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reader, Deanna_can_help +, writes (3 May 2010):
 Hey, If your quite young your still not sure what sexuallity you are, try experimenting. Ask a close friend, kiss and see how you feel about it, it may seem wiered but if it feels 'right' then you may be, jus have a try and see how YOU feel about it.
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reader, Ms. Tearious +, writes (3 May 2010):
Hello love. I'm going to start off first by stating that simply because you have thoughts of being intimate with women does not make you bi or lesbian at all. I am perfectly straight, and the only way I can get off when I masterbate is when I fantasize about having sex with a woman. I wonder what it would be like to do so, and this doesn't make me bi or lesbian either; it's called curiosity. Being curious is normal, a very large ratio of women go through the exact same thing and have the exact same feelings. You would be bi or lesbian if you conducted a stable and official relationship with a woman, labeling her as your girlfriend/partner/wife. All in all, you're simply just as curious as the rest of us! ;)
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