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*rock01
writes: There is a girl at my job I like I asked her if she had a boyfriend she said yes I told her he was lucky cause I think she is pritty, I ask her if it was ok for me to call her she said yes then one day I ask her if could take her out to dinner and she said yes I told to let me know when I could but we haven't been yet I told her how I feel about her and that if it doesn't work out with her and her boyfriend that I will like to get to know her and she said ok cause things between them are rocky sometimes she answer my tex and somtimes she soest I only been talking to her for about 3 weeks should I keep chasing her or leave her alone Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, ManAfterChrist +, writes (4 May 2010):
Hey man, I've been in similar situations before. She isn't looking for a relationship from you. She likes the attention she is getting from you, and isn't going to push you away, but I doubt she'd risk her current relationship for someone new. If she does, do you really think she'll stay content with you or will she end up doing the same thing in the end? I suggest just walking away. You won't regret it in the end. If they end up breaking up, then give her some mourning time then go ahead and go for it. Until then, I'd stay away bro.
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reader, raiders +, writes (4 May 2010):
She has a boyfriend therefore I think you should leave her alone. If for any reason her and her boyfriend break up than I suggest you make your move, but until than I think you should stay away from her. I don't suggest you stay close and become her friend because this will only hurt you emotionally and if you were to become her friend its going to very hard for you to get out of the friend list. I think you should keep your distance.
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reader, EmoGir0 +, writes (4 May 2010):
If things between her and her boyfriend are rocky then keep talking to her. Don't let her go. BUT keep in my mind that she does still have a boyfriend. Don't get to into her because things between her current b/f and her may clear up. Also, keep a little at a distance, you don't know how much she tells her boyfriend, he may know about everything.
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