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*quirtrocks123
writes:i have always considered myself straight. I find the idea of sex with girls extremely arousing. However recently i have been finding the idea of giving ang recieving blowjobs to/from other males. In particular gettting the ejaculate on my face.In almost evry other way i find any form of sex with men horrific. What i want to work out is does this make me gay? Also how can i go about getting the issue out and satisfied? I read that hormones can give some ppl some gay tendancies but i think this isnt the case for me, as the issue has been with me for around 2 and a bit years.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (5 May 2010):
 On the other hand it could simply be that you are not getting enough blowjobs yourself and as a result have them too much on your mind.
You say that you find the idea of sex with girls extremely arousing. This suggests that maybe you aren't actually having much sex.
My suggestion would be to go and get yourself blown by a nice looking girl 2 or 3 times in as many days. If at the end of that if you are still thinking about sucking dicks yourself then yes you are Bi, if not it was just your hormones out of control.
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reader, squirtrocks123 +, writes (4 May 2010):
squirtrocks123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncheers everyone for responding so fast. i have added another question if you could kindly take a look. it concerns how i go forward from my new state of mind.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Bisexual. if you fantasise about sucking a mans dick and having him cum on your face then you are attracted to men. if you are also attracted to women then in combination this makes you bisexual
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): If you want oral sex with a man then you are bi curious. If you do it and enjoy it and still enjoy sex with women, then you are bi sexual.
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reader, squirtrocks123 +, writes (4 May 2010):
squirtrocks123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni would like to point out that i have no othr attractions to guys. Efen if i see a penis i dont want it. Its only in my fantasies. Its only the thought of blowing it that doesit for me. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): many str8 men has/had some gay fantasies form a time to anotherso dont worry
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reader, baddogbj +, writes (4 May 2010):
A bit, yes.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Sounds to me like you're just wanting to experiment, to try different things. That's what you're supposed to do before you make a monogamous committment to someone. Don't worry about the labels -- gay, bi, whatever. If it's an itch, scratch it. And go on from there.
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reader, EDLion  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 Too most of people, they would see this as gay......... Including me...... Cuz from my pt of view, the penis is the only thing that woman does not possess and you desired that very thing.
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reader, CkritAgentMan  +, writes (4 May 2010):
If you have such feelings as you just stated PLUS you still have/seek relations with women, then you truly are BI. Now in the schools of public perception... some women are different. "Bi" women in some groups are thought of as just more free spirited, wild or perhaps adventurous. Yet most redblooded, beer drinkin males won't differentiate "bi" men from "gay" men. If you as a man allow a peter in your mouth then you are gay! Don't shoot the messenger, that's just the way it happens and I'm telling you. Sex is sex, you are no different than Elton John just because you would rather give him a blowjob than stick it in his rear-end. YOU asked,CAM
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