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writes:when i was 14 (4 years ago) i was abused, and left alone..i was scared and i didnt know what i had done wrong.. i thought i could trust the boy.but i was wrong and stupid. he was 14 too.. i just didnt think things like that went through boys head at that age, but they obvs do.its been 4 years since, and im in a lovely relationship. im just scared to sleep, and can any one help me on what to do, and to get over it all please. please help me, i keep having night mares, and scared its going to happen again. what can i do?thank you :) Reply to this Question
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reader, EDLion  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 First, i think you should tell us what happened when you're 14 in detail, then i'll understand the case better. But if you think it's really THAT bad, and you dont want us to know, okay no pressure, but i suggest you find a good therapist.........and have therapy, it always works............i think.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 Maybe you need to talk to someone who understands. I suggest you look up some teen hot-lines, they can point to you a professional person in your area, as well and give you some guidance and help.
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reader, BorninUssr  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 hi still having nightmares: bad, very badyou should visit a psychologist. It's not a disease. It just in your head.i want to tell you a story about a boy.When he was young he saw his oldest brother dieing, since that day, he could not sleep. He always had nightmares, and he was scared to sleep, his parents tried to help him, but it was useless. He still got nightmares.After some time, he realized that he can control his own dreams, that hi is the one who makes his dreams, he controls that world he dream in and about. And he started to travel in his dreams. In his dreams he created own world, discovered a lot of interesting things, and some how made them come true, to this world.How ever, he became one of the gratest scientist ever. His name was Nikola Tesla.you can do it, sweet dreams ;)
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reader, single gal  +, writes (3 May 2010):
i m so sorry for what happened to you,. did you ever tell anyone about what happened to youi really think you need councilling for something like that. you need a professional to help you deal with this.hope you get help
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