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*izz.butterflies
writes:Soo,I was in the club 3 days ago and met this very handsome guy. He seems the playa-playa type (very good looking,best dressed,some girls were trying to talk to him) but he clearly made it seem that he was interested in me. When the girls came to him he gave me a "don't worry, I’m here for YOU" look, he said to me and my girls that if anyone messes with us we can tell him and he can take care of it, and even though he was nice to them he only was talking to me. He obsereved that I was singing the lyrics of this song so he said "Hrmm so you sing? I sing too....we should collaborate, can I have ur number?" lol cheesy but cute. So I said ill think about it. He came and asked me if I thought about it, I was like hmmm give me some more time. Some time later he said hes going out for a smoke,but informed me he will be back. He got back and smiled at me,then I said to him we're going to leave.He asked for my number again. I gave it to him and said bye. Sooo,since then he hasn't called.Isn't that a bit akward? The question is...if i see him in the club again,how should I act? Or what should i say to him? I kinda am dissappointed he didn't call when he made it seem he was very interested.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (4 May 2010):
mizz.butterflies is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeah caring guy is usually on point :P
The thing is,he did look like a player but he acted very decently and i had his full attention at the club.
my question however was...IF HE DOESNT CALL,and i happen to see him at the club again (it was the first time I saw him there but he knew the dj)...how should I act? what should i say? I appeared very confident to him that night,so I was kinda worried that I made him re-think whether he wants my number,but like i stated,he asked for it again when I told him I was leaving.
So I have this picture in my mind,I'm dancing with my girls and I happen to see him at the club...How do I act?
Thanks to all for the responses :)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 May 2010):
Your first line was the clue. He seems the 'playa-playa type' and made it clear that he was interested in you. Which means that he made it clear to all those girls around him that he was interested in them, and probably has several numbers. So don't bother with him now. Be polite of you see him, but don't fall the bad boy player type, because this is the result and it will get a lot worse.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 May 2010):
Your first line was the clie. He seems the 'playa-playa type' and made it clear that he was interested in you. Which means that he made it clear to all those girls around him that he was interested in them, and probably has several numbers. So don't bother with him now. Be polite of you see him, but don't fall the bad boy player type, because this is the result and it will get a lot worse.
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