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writes:Ok here's my issue. I've been with my bf for almost 2 years now and we have a 7 month old daughter together and i'm still having the same issues with him. I have talked to him more than once and he knows how i feel about it. He is constantly in contact with his ex. They have no ties to each other or anything. She still wants to be with him and she makes it clear and he claims that he doesnt want anything to do with and that he doesnt have feelings for her. But all of the evidence shows that there is still something there. Everytime its come up he tells me something different and that he will stop talking to her, but he never does. He goes behind my back to talk to her and everything. I would go through his phone and read his messages and he's telling her he loves her and wants her back, but when i confront him on it he just tells me he was just fooling her and he really didnt mean it. i went so far as to pay to get his number changed because he said he didnt want contact with her and to make me happy. That didnt work she still got his number and they still talked. Now recently i happen to go through his phone and i saw where he had texted her to send him some nude pics. This has happened before he has had tons of nude pics of her in his phone. I confronted him about that and he said he was messed up one morning and didnt know what he was doing. I didnt buy that story because its something different everytime and its getting old. Anyway, just this morning i went and checked his phone and she had sent him another nude pic. I want to know you guys opinion on this. I know what I'm talking about and how it looks. I just need to know I'm not wrong about what I'm thinking. I know he still has feelings for her and he keeps proving that to me over and over even though he tells me otherwise. Should I stick around or just leave altogether?
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (3 May 2010):
 First, if he "didn't want anything to do with her" then why does he still have something to do with her? And realistically, she did not just mysteriously "get" his new number he gave it to her! With you paying for it??? C'mon now, this guy obviously thinks you're quite blind and stupid. If he devotes this much time and energy to his ex then he needs to go do it full time. This guy is playing you for completely stupid and you're allowing it to continue! Do you really need the drama and toxicity? This guy is pond scum and will be for quite some time. Get rid of him. Next contestant please! He tells you the same lie over and over because it's what you want to hear! If you're buying the lies, it's on you. Kick this player's ass out in the street, let his ex put up with him. Odds are he'll be texting you for nude pix and lying to his ex about it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 May 2010):
I know there is a child involved here, so it's a hard decision for you to make. But if this man is asking for nude pictures of his ex, then really you would do better to leave him and focus on yourself and your child. Don't sit there being second best, because you'll feel worse.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 I am sorry,this is very sad because there is a child involved, but I think that if your boyfriend keeps asking for nude pics from his ex- he needs to be YOUR ex ASAP.
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