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writes: Hi, i'm a 19 year old girl and i need help getting over my old school teacher. I've fallen for a few teachers, but never this hard. I met him five years ago when i was in third form, and he left half way through the year. I was convinced i'd get over her after he left, but five years on and i still can't get him out of my head. I'm happily taken now, and it makes me feel so bad because i can't stop thinking about my old teacher. It's insane, i need help, i need to get over him...
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reader, GraveyardFairy13 +, writes (3 May 2010):
try to to things like hang out and go places and stuff with your curent boyfriend, and try to make the feelings you have for your teacher into feelings for your boyfriend, and then just everytime you think of your teacher, just try to push it out of your mind and think of something else, like something you did with your curent boyfriendtrusy me this may sound odd, but it really works.good luck! :D
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reader, xxsecretsxx +, writes (3 May 2010):
Your teacher obviously had a profound affect on you, but you need to figure out if you have a crush on him because of the influence he had on your life or if it was simply physical.
Perhaps you should try to think of your teacher more as an uncle, having that kind of family connection will help the feelings you had for him dissipate over time.
Good luck regardless. I hope that you can put this crush behind you and enjoy a wonderful life with the man you are with now.
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