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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi.. Any words of advice is welcome on this one, I really don't understand why I'm so confused or even hurt by this. Okay, a few times my bf and I have spoken about if his penis was longer or even thicker would I enjoy it more, I have told him lots of times I like the way he is, if he was different he would properly hurt me but I enjoy the way he is. He says I have asked more then twice how long would he last in a night, I can't recall asking. The thing is one of his buddy's have got this side line business of what they call a enhancement pill, a herbal viagra, I have not had any intention to ever try something like that so research was not needed. His 12 years older then me and I do know that men change as they get older maybe his body can't keep up with mine or so, and he said that he wanted to try the pills for me, but I feel that I'm not giving him enough, sexually if pills are going to be what we use. I don't know, maybe I'm being a bit paranoid about it, can someone maybe tell me what this pill does and the research I have done lead me no where.. I do understand that when I'm still wild he 'dies' off and that could be embarrassing, any words of wisdom ? Tx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2010): Sounds like his friend has filled his head with rubbish and now he's so worried about performing sexually that it's causing him to lose erections even though he is really turned on by you. I think most men sometimes worry if their penis is big enough to satisfy the woman they love. We get unrealistic messages from porn and slimy snow oil salesmen trying to sell fraudulent penis enlarging products. Nothing will change the size of his penis (even surgery can't do much). Reliable sexuality experts state that the most sensitive parts of a woman's vagina are no deeper than 3 inches inside her.He should talk to his doctor. I did. Blood pressure pills and worry about performance caused me to lose erections during intercourse. My doctor prescribed Cialis and it's helped me get over the problem. Now I can often manage without it.Viagara, Cialis and other drugs aren't magic. They relax blood vessels allowing better blood flow to the penis. Your boyfriend should definitely see a doctor. Problems with erections are a sign of diabetes, heart problems or low testosterone. It might just be anxiety but he should get checked. Tell him to be very open with his doc it's the best way.This is his problem. Be supportive as you can but it's not your fault (or his). I'm sure he still finds you sexy. You can help build up his confidence by letting him know what he does that turns you on. Make sure it's genuine, faking things will backfire. Maybe take the pressure off for a while and stick to touching and oral for now. Talk openly and listen to his fears. Have fun and let him know how much you love him as a man. In the end he's the one that needs to face up to his fear and see his doctor. And if the doctor is unhelpful find one who is. Oh yeah, keep him away from that friend. The only way that supplement is working is by making his friend a giant dick.Good luck
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