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30-35,
*upesh chaurasiya
writes:i have a affair with my gf from last 14months. we both luv eachother had enjoyed life also had sex.i trust her n she too. but from the last two months her behavior has changed.before that we talk on phone mostly for 10-15 minutes. she calls me everyday. but now she calls once or only twice a week n she talks very less with me. without any luv no feelings etc. i think that she have an affair with someone else n i m not sure about that. she is completely changed. i miss her a lot. everyday i wait for her call but she never calls me. so what shuld i do.when i talk to har about our marriage, she told me to leave this topic to future.before some months she was ready to marry me.does she has an affair with someone else. please reply me what shuld i do. i m getting depressed.give me some suggestions wat shuld i do.
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reader, BunnyTee  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 I suggest you wise up fast, my friend. This is classic USER. Now she wants money? According to today's exchange rates 300 rupees = 6.75 USD. To me that'd be the same as someone bumming a pack of smokes, presumptuous but no big deal. To you, I know not. Being unsure of present standards of living 300 rupees may be a lot of cash or just pocket change. If this sum IS a substantial amount in your culture I'd tell her to go get a job. The choice is your's. But were I you, I wouldn't expect to see my money repaid. This girl is a user playing you for a fool. Also, what's it mean that her mother "banged her"? Does that mean beat up or assaulted her?
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reader, rupesh chaurasiya +, writes (4 May 2010):
rupesh chaurasiya is verified as being by the original poster of the question today her call came n she told me that her younger sister told all about us to her mom n her mom has banged har. now she is affraid.she was asking me to give her 300rupees i had not given. first she told that she needs money, after wards she told her friend needs 300rupees. she did't told me the reason why she needs money. so what shuld i do. please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2010): what you need to do is move on man. think about it.... if she's acting like this right now....she's not sure what she wants. let it go now before you end up getting hurt later... because the longer you wait... the harder the pain will feel. pay attention to how she is changing day by day... it's not getting any better... it's getting worse... take this as a blessing in disguise and move on. hope that helps
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (3 May 2010):
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO IS: WAKE UP AND SMELL WHAT THE G/F IS COOKIN', dude! Decreased call volume? No plans for the future? She stopped calling you? The writing is on the wall, my friend, I encourage you to read it and believe it. It sounds pretty certain that Girlfriend has left the building when you weren't looking. She's playing you to the left. It may not be a certainty that she's got another guy, but it's a distinct possibility, I think. I'd say she's probably at the very least, interested in someone who is not you. Don't torment yourself. If she calls again, wish her the best and tell her she knows where to find you and leave it at that. Go on with your life and look after yourself and your own well being, let her do the same.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2010): Have you flat out asked her if somethings changed, or her feelings have changed for you? I'd ask her and see what she has to say.
Good luck
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