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writes:Hey :D Ok, I'm a bi-sexual girl, who broke up with her long time girlfriend about 7 months ago. I met this guy about 3 months later. I started developing feelings for him; he was the first person I'd had feelings for since my exe. However, this guy is gay. Very gay. He has a long term boyfriend who I have met, he's a really nice guy and they are really happy together... or so I thought. So yea, the gay guy and me get on really well for a while, joking and ticking and stuff, just having fun. Its always been a rule of mine to never ever get in the way of someones happiness, so I was never gunna try anyting. This guy is 4 years older than me btw and Im good friends with his little sister who is a year younger than me.So yea, yesterday I was out shopping with his sister and one of our friends, and we spot this girl who works with him. Anyway, his sister pulls us behind an isle and says "see that girl? My brothers been cheating on his boyrfiend with her, I saw them kissing on the street a few weeks ago!"Well I was pretty blown away by this I thought he seemed such a nice guy, I thought he'd never be unfaithful. I cant abide cheating. So yea, I've lost a little bit of respect for him now, but I'm more worried. Because, i've been telling myself that nothing can ever happen because he doesnt like girls, full stop- but now it appears he does. I've been able to be myself and keep my feelings for him repressed whilst ive known all attempts would be futile and embarrasing, but what if I cannt repress them now? Btw, he doesnt know I'm bi, neither does his sister or any of that particular chain of friends, do you think I should tell him? I feel pretty lonely and like Im lying to myself when Im arround them (my other friends all know) But yea, what should I do to stop myself getting too hung up on him and is there any chance he might like me that way and should I tell him I';m bi? Thanks
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 There's no reason not to tell him. The biggest thing you have to question is his unfaithfulness. If he does it to his boyfriend, he can potentially do it to anybody... especially you. But as far as any other reasons? Nope. Tell him if you want.
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