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writes:I have been seeing my bf for 18 months. We are both separated and have kids, live apart and he has a difficult job that is physically exhausting so when I do get to see him (not as often as I'd like) he is often tired.There are a few things that are getting me down about it, however he is a good man and we love each other.However, out of the blue I met this younger man through work. He made it clear that he was attracted to me, and after alcohol and a very direct play from him, I ended up having a one night stand.What's bothering me more than the one night stand is that there must be something wrong with my relationship to do this. I have been acting badly with him and he is very confused right now.Do I give him/myself a break?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 I agree, but being tired, overworked and not spending enough time is not that wrong in a relationship. Some people cheat just because they could. Own up to it. If you decide to stay with him then accept that you will have to adjust to his schedule and earn his trust again.
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