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writes:Me and my girlfriend been together for around 4 years.we moved in and have lived together for 2.as of late she's been a bitch,anything and everything I do goes un noticed. She doesn't cook,clean,or help with bills.she likes to snap over the dumbest shit! Example-she wanted a dog,so I bought her a dog for her bday..a year ago. She said she would feed it walk it and pick up after it. Haha ya right.so I ask her to pick up land mines and blows up..no!! You do it,I'm busy blah blah blah.that's the least of my worries..do I end what I have going or roll with punches?? I'm real sick of her lazyness and attitude-what to do what to do,help!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 February 2010):
Ultimatum time. Tell her how you feel and that things have to change. Set a time limit (2 months). If nothing has changed by then, move on from her.
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reader, alwaysnight +, writes (21 February 2010):
Well I probably won't be much help but I think you should comfront her and see if she will change her ways and help you. If not, do you really want that for another 4 years? Although you may love her and not want a bit change in your life, are you willing to live with the worrie of doing everything and get shouted out over silly things?
I definately wouldn't be. Im sure you can find some that will appreciate you and the sharing of chores.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): Shes not pulling her weight it sounds like all the effort is coming from you.
Shes not 'paying her way' financially or anyway for that matter. Best thing for you to do is give her an ultimatum, tell her things need to change she needs to help out financially or if she can't do that she needs to do housework. Oh and tell her the dog is going if she doesn't start walking it!
If things don't change and she still has a shitty attitude kick her out!
Good luck!
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (21 February 2010):
 I feel for you and understand you. Luckyly its not a real baby, its only a dog. what then if you two got a baby, oh my god. sit down and talk to her about this matters. you must let her know what your problem is or else she is going to think that she is doing just very very fine.
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reader, cls1990 +, writes (21 February 2010):
 Does she know you feel this way? You need to talk to her about it, she can't live with you and not contribute
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