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Feelings for women changed, but not attracted to same sex.

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Question - (21 February 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i've been spending alot of time questioning my sexuality ever since i broke up with my girl friend last year. i've always liked girls and never found attraction to males. i would always get nervous around her since she was my first girlfriend, she said she didn't have feelings for me anymore and that i was becoming more of a friend than a boyfriend. i got nervous when we were going to make out and it didn't go well, she had stopped. after we broke up though, i was really sad because i felt like i loved her. i started to question my sexuality after that. i thought it was maybe because i never made a move on her (iwas nervous).. i would look at guys then and ending up thinking if i was gay. i would also sit through gay porn.. i wouldn't enjoy it, and occasionally i would get an erection but not most of the time. i still get nervous around girls and i don't know if i could ever find another girl. that had me thinking too. i don't have dreams of the same sex neither. i picture being with the same sex but it doesn't feel right but my attraction for women is not how it used to be.. maybe i could have hocd?

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