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writes:I just turned 20 and I'm still a virgin. I desperately need a girl in and out of the bedroom especially in the bedroom. I live in Boston. I don't go to school and I'm too young to go to the clubs or bars. i don't really know anyone that can hook me up with any girls either. I really don't want to but I'm considering getting a prostitute. I think I'm a good looking guy. I work out everyday, have a nice car,have very nice cloths, have a good hair cut and all. Really the only reasons why I'm still a virgin is because I always home schooled so I was never around too many girls and now I'm not in school and not in a work place with any girls my age. I'm also very shy and awkward with people. What should I do? One thing I thought about is doing yoga to meet a girl or at least just get laid finally. Do you think this would be a good idea? Do you have any other ideas. I only want to hook up with someone around my age
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): well,some girls like shy guys, u should try the beach and if you have a dog take him or her with u. girls love dogs
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (23 February 2010):
 Go look up boston.craigslist.org and look under w4m in the casual encounters. You will be surprised how many girls want it as much as you do. Good luck. Some will say I would do 20 kisses for a certain job, those are escorts. But most are just girls who are lonely and horny.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010): Well buddy, I don't know if this will make you feel any better or not but you and I are in the same situation.I was home schooled too and was vary isolated growing up.I had the same problem with being socially awkward and I still do but I am a lot better then what I used to be.As for the for the problem of getting laid, I have no idea. I'm still a virgin myself and I'm 22 T-T, but you know what? I'm done feeling sorry for myself all the time.I spent the last two years feeling like you do now and the conclusion I came to is it isn't worth it.Just because we haven't had sex yet doesn't make us worth any less, and any body that doesn't like it can kiss my ass! One more thing don't go to a whore your better then that.Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): there are not really any girls my age at the gym.
angzw, I'm not nearly confident enough to pick up a girl on the street or on the bus.
celiaaleta, i'm just very awkward meeting people. i don't have much self esteem and always feel bad that i'm not in school when i meet someone. obviously i would be especially awkward meeting girls. i'm trying to change but it's really hard to. i've been extremely isolated from people my whole life. recently i've been around more people but it's still not enough.
alexis, do you really think if i did yoga girls would assume i'm gay? i thought it would be a good place because there would not be too much competition probably.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (22 February 2010):
I would encourage you to try meet women as friends first whether online or at Yoga class or even the gym. You sound severely sheltered so why dont you also consider joining the Peace Corps or Operation Raleigh or any volunteer organisation that will get you out into the world. If you are only meeting women for sex then your social skills are severely underdeveloped. Girls have this sex radar and they will see your plan from a mile away. So make friends go out on dates; nothing hectic just a walk in the park, a walk to the bus or an icecream or something. The gym is a good place to meet women. Once you get used to being around women then find a girlfriend from among them. Good luck.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (22 February 2010):
 i want to say dont spend money to get laid then second i want to say go with the prostitute option, your gonna end up spending a ton of money on potential girlfriends dinner movie etc that the prostitute will probably be the better you just pick the one you like the most, but i also must say if you dont do this rite you will probably regret it so maybe you should slow down a bit wrk on your social skills then find that special girl
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reader, alexis** +, writes (22 February 2010):
 girls can usually tell when all you want is to fuck them, so try to calm down. trying yoga could be a good idea to meet someone, like you could ask a cute girl for her help, or you could offer to help her. but yoga seems a lil gay to me. you havent seen anyone at the gym you like? could try the helping thing there too. say you like her eyes, or ask her what kinda music she likes. when youve ben talking mention a movie you wanna see& ask if she wants to see it too. dont lie about w/e you say tho...we can tell.
meeting a girl is all about being outgoing, and yourself, and meeting someone who likes what you do.
dont try fucking a prostitute.thats not going to be how you wanna rember your 1st time..its better with someone you actually like. if you really wanna go w/ that anyway try an escort service, and no matter who you decide to do it w/ just make sure you wear a condom.if you get a disease its really not going to be worth it.
goodluck:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): well fiddly dee isnt' that aweful ....
Actually its not that aweful. The Realist has a point. The sex will be far better with someone u know or want to know. I am a 20 year old virgin myself and I am waiting for love. I hope that helped u. There are plenty of vrigins out there.
I am a shy good looking one. Nice sweet polite and girlfriend material. I love Boston but dont live there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): There are plenty of girls ur age who are virgins.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (22 February 2010):
 Joining yoga or some sort of club would be good but going into it with the mindset of getting laid will set you up to fail. A girl will be able to tell if thats all you have on your mind and chances are she will not like that. Find a girl who you have common interests with so that the whole thing isn't about sex.
If you try to hook up with a girl on the first night and don't tell her that you are a virgin things may not go exactly as you want them to.
You can find a girl who will want to be with you for who you are and then sex for the first time will be far better. Trust me on this one, I lost my virginity to someone who was experience but didn't really care and it was good sex. It wasn't untill I was with someone who I truely love that the sex was great.
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