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36-40,
*luvme23
writes:I've known this guy for over a year. We met on an online dating site. In the beginning we made plans to meet, but it never happened because I always flaked out. But he never gave up, always keeping in contact. So finally we meet. We hit it off rather well. That was two months ago. Now you can say we're dating. Everything is cool, except he's constantly accusing me of being sneaky and "doing me". Which is far from the truth. We'll argue for hours, and I'd get fed up and hang up. Then he'll call me back and apologize saying he was tripping. And he don't know why he's acting like that. But a few days later we're back at square one. I'm thinking maybe its the distance between us. He's a hour and a half train ride away from me, so we only see each other once a week. I really like him and I don't want to just leave him alone. But something has to give. Any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): it sounds like red flag to me. I think he is insecure no matter what situation. first thing you decide is do you want a future together? because once a week in a LD rlationship will not sustain its self for long. their is a natural order of relationships and things need to progress. will one of you leave your town to be together eventually? you really need to get him to talk and try not to get into a argumentative situation otherwise you just go round in circles and not get to the bottom of what is making him so insecure. have you talked about a future together. if not then maybe you should reconsider is once a week enough to have a good solid relationship?
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