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writes:Right here goes,My boyfriend tells me he has a low sex drive but our sex life is headnig down hill in my point of view.I havnt had sex for a week, even thought, he stayed round mine 3 night in a row and we only kissed occasionlly.I have talked to him but he just says he doesnt want to have sex becasue he is not horny. This has been going on for a year and im getting a bit fed up.Please leave advice or comments becasue ive run out of things to say to him or do to encourage more physical contact. Has he lost intrest? or what?Thanks. X
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reader, hamwitch  +, writes (28 February 2010):
i would say asking about it on a more personal level.
if your pissed tell him.
and sweetie no matter how much of that im not horny shit he give you i bet he won't refuse sex he is a guy(or worst case he's just realized hes gay{probably not though}just some food for thought)i mean not like rape him sex you know just like the gradual high school kinda sex may be he just needs some adventure in your sex life (i.e. role playing some porn,toys, you know) i'v always felt when i get depressed new sexual stuff cheers me right up)so i dont know the best you can do is ask lots of questions(get to find out what his funk is all about and how you can help fix it)
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reader, Mercury4691 +, writes (22 February 2010):
Perhaps your boyfriend is depressed. This happened with me and my ex. It took me a few months to discover that he was becoming depressed and because of his male "ego" he wouldn't admit to me that this was happening. He hated his job,his family and the direction his life was going in so he didn't have motivation to do anything... including having sex. I've never been depressed so It's hard for me to say that a low sex drive is from being depressed but according to my ex it was the reason his sex drive plummeted.
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reader, UpsNdownZZZ +, writes (22 February 2010):
Maybe he is asexual. I am an asexual female and am only really interested in being romantic, not having sex. My last two boyfriends resented that and we're no longer together, in part, because the lack of an active sex life.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 February 2010):
Hmm, a young man who has a low sex drive. Maybe he has a medical problem? Maybe he has lost interest. Worse still he is getting it somewhere else. Whatever the reason, you now need to tell him it is affecting your relationship and that it needs to change.
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