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female
age
30-35,
*ritishGirls4life
writes:I usually date guys and like to flirt around them. I use to have a boyfriend but we broke up because it wasn't working out. I just didn't feel anything when we kissed. But this week i went to a work site at Pet Clinic just for one week. There was this girl there and she seemed very nice. She was outgoing and stuff and for some reason i just felt something. I don't know what. On my last day of working there yesterday she asked if i wanted to go with her to walk the dogs so i did. We got to know each other a little better and I really like her personality she made me happy and feel good about myself. When it came to the end of the day i just couldn't stop thinking about her. I don't know if i was missing her as a friend or maybe more?I can't stop thinking about her. I don't want to do anything sexual or something. I just don't know what my sexuality preference is now. I have sometimes thought about what its like to kiss a girl. Please help what do you think?
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reader, Caring Stranger  +, writes (21 February 2010):
 hi!
try not to worry about this. I think everything your feeling is completely natural for a girl of your age. and it doesnt mean that you are gay. I think perhaps you could be bisexual or maybe just curious. ive had relationships with men and women and for me there is a different kind of spark when i spend time with a woman and perhaps thats what you feel like with this girl. If you are curious then this is the perfect time to experiment and make sense of who you are. There is nothing wrong with getting to know this girl more (she is clearly keen to get to know you too). and if you get to the point where you want to try and kiss another girl and you think they want to kiss you too then by all means just go for it!! if you never try it then you dont know if you would like it. you may find that you kiss a girl and feel nothing and then all these thoughts will go away, or you may enjoy it and continue to explore your sexuality. either way, your feelings are normal!!
good luck and please let me know how you get on or message me if you want more help!
xx
p.s kissing a girl feels great-i personally think girls have more passion but thats just my experienc ;-) xx
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