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writes:I met this wonderful guy online. We are in our 40's. We hit it off on the spot. He wa open, I was not, I had one pic posted of myself,,bt his profile stated he only likes slim and slender, I am not I 'm not overweight, I have curves like I told him I;m a size 10-11. Not bad kooking I just said average he liked the picture and bubbly personality on the phone. He made me feel so nice, he was very attentive, funny and was always made me laugh. I did the same for him. He told me that I was so very different from the other women he had met. I always try to make any person feel very special. I was looking for true and unconditional love, I have so much love to give. Well we spoke for hours every day, he texted always, he is a police officer and has desk duty so we wold chat and text almost every minute possible. It felt great. The came time to meet..I wanted to lose a least 10 pounds,,only lost 3..ok..I was nervous because to him he does not date chubby girls, he told me that, and it resonated in my head and I was feeling guilty. He had opened up I knew so much about his life, his family and job. I went.The date seemed to have gone well...we joked, laughed and it was nice, We had coffee and chatted or 2 hours. We said goodbye, we hugged and went our separate ways, I:m feeling a little sad because he did not even send me a text to see if I arrived safely. Which ht constantly was texting me even on his way to or home from work. I feel disappointment, I feel too embarrass to call hum, I think he should called. So I guess I was not what he had expected since we met in person. I wanted to show him that its how a person is on the inside that counts and not whats on the outside..I know I made him feel very special because he told me. Should I text, call or email him and thank him for a wonderful time. Should I wait to see if he calls...I don"t know what to do...I don"t want to seem desperate .or is he waiting to hear from me...The date was last night Saturday...its ow the next day Sunday...in normlaity he would of already sent me a text to wish me a good morning, That's why I feel so sad,,I know life goes on,,,but he was so very nice. What should I do..I still think a man should call...we live about an hour from each other....Help!!!
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (21 February 2010):
I think you can send him a thanks for the date message then leave it up to him. Perhaps he is also thinking you might have been disappointed so just be the brave one. After that though, don't message him or anything and move on. In future, avoid like the plague people who like body types you don't match. To this group, looks are more important than even personality. That's the beauty of online dating; you avoid people you are not compatible with so if he doesnt call then happily move on; it will be his loss.
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reader, loislane6924  +, writes (21 February 2010):
 I went on a date with a guy recently (it was a VERY complicated situation) anyways.. He texted me as soon as he got home and made sure I got home okay too.. If its already been a week and there hasn't been any communication than perhaps you should just move on. He seems kind of shallow, especially to say he "doesn't date chubby girls". If someones going to think like that (I know most people do) but we end up on missing out on a lot.
I hope he texts or phones but I would just give him space. If he misses you he will but don't hold your breathe.
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