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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:there was this guy i dated in 7 grade and we broke up. its now been almost 1 year later and he was starting to txt me telling me how sorry he was and that he always has liked me and he is totally into me and only wants me. this went on for a few weeks then he says that i want a bf relationship in order to kiss and he don't want that he wants to kiss a girl with no commitment.so i said ok what if we tried it and see what happens and he says he cant do that to me cause to him it would feel like he is using me and he cant do that so i said how do you think that if i am agreeing to it and he says cause i cant hurt you. but he tells me that all his feelings for me are still true and he means them..i don't understand if he is totally into me and all whats the big deal. so what is he trying to say to me and what advice do you have for me. he has stopped texting since then unless i have a problem and he is there to listen to me and will give his advice
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 February 2010):
Basically he was trying to use you. And he will try to use the next girl that comes along too. He doesn't even talk to you, so it shows how little he cares. Move on from him and enjoy your own life for now.
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reader, Caring Stranger +, writes (21 February 2010):
 ok hunny, well it sounds to me that this guy is just looking for someone to have physical contact with...it does not sound like he wants to be your boyfriend. He says he cares about you but basically he just wants to use you for physical contact.
I think that you are too young to have guys calling the shots and causing you so much confusion and worry. He has stopped texting you which is just proof that he does not want to be with you and cant care about you as much as he says. He sounds like he is trying to sweet talk you but you are young and should just be having fun. I would recommend that you keep him as a friend.
hope this helps and i hope this advice didnt sound too harsh. message me if you want to chat. xx
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