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writes:Hello agony aunts,i am a 16-year-old boy and i come from Greece. Sorry, if my English is not good but i will try to show my problem! Everything started when i fell in love with a 15-year-old girl. I love her and everyone knows that she loves me too but she doesn't admit it.. please help me! how can i appeal her attention! please, i love her so much! yours,desperate
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reader, justhelp  +, writes (22 February 2010):
I am having a relationship problem with my wife right now so I might not be the best person to give you advice but do here me out. You can't force someone to love you or show their affection towards you. Forget about what others think or tell you. No matter how much you think you love this girl, your relationship with her can only work if she loves you back. If she doesn't, there is nothing you can do and you certainly can't force that. It would be like cupping water with your bare hands. No matter how much you want that water to stay in your hands, it would sip away eventually. Besides, you're 16, she's only 15 and are over 6 billion people on this planet. The probability of you meeting another Ms. Right is infinite. Assuming her as your only 'perfect match' is just naive and natural for your age. You should give each each other some room to grow and meet more people because you may eventually meet someone whom you'll love even more. If she's the one for you, she'll come around one day but it's all up to her.
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