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writes:I feel really bad but, I am really jealous of my boyfriend and selfishly hurt. I want him to have fun with his new experience in Canada and meeting friends and all that jazz it's just, he's having so much fun that he doesn't have any time for me and I feal neglected and hurt. I feel bad for feeling this way but I can't help it. We are in a long distance relationship and he will be coming home at the end of March. I'm happy for him but I just wish he would talk to me more or something. I just really feel neglected and I don't know what to do. I send him a text and it gets ignored, a message it gets ignored. How do I get over this feeling? I've given up on trying to talk to him but it doesn't mean that I am not upset. I feel like he's forgotten about me and I feel replaced by his new friends and all the fun he is having up there.
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reader, annalee123  +, writes (21 February 2010):
If you both have computers sign up to ~Skype where you can talk to one and other over the computer and with webcam or if computer has video inbuilt you can see one and other too. My partner always expected me to call him but now as soon as I log on he can see I am on line and we talk that way. Now we speak every day and I don't feel that he is too far away now.
Long distance relationships are difficult and I think if I had no communication the relationship wouldn't last very long.
Forget the texts and phone him and tell him how you are feeling.
Good luck
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 February 2010):
Get back on the phone to him and SAY to him (not text) that you feel like this. Tell him you feel neglected and that you wish he would just speak to you more. Tell him exactly how you feel. Then see what his reaction is to you. If he's still not bothered, then perhaps it's time to move on.
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