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male
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30-35,
*teel stake
writes:alright so I have an ex girlfriend problem like many people do as well. This girl has most definetely got my heart for all the wierdest reasons. But About a month and a half ago we broke up because she wanted to be single or didnt want to be very serious. This upset me alot since i was the best i could be for her and gave her many presents and always thought of her first. Well we started talking about 3 weeks ago cuz she told one of our mutual friends she missed me. We went out on a double date and it went very well as we did cuddle and kiss. But i feel like she still hasnt changed and by this i mean she still doesnt put in all effort and thinks that ill do anything for her. Well at a school talent show i invited her on a date and when i got there she said the seats she was sitting in were taken so i just went and sat with my other friends angry as you can imagine. Its been about 3 days since then and we have not spoke one words because she thinks im upset which i am. I just need some advice on how to get this girl to work for me and make her WANT me that way i know for sure we can actually be steady. so please any advice on what i can do if i should do anything, or if i should just forget the past and try to move on since it will never evolve. ty so much
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 February 2010):
You can't make someone change. She has to change herself. That means you are better off moving on from her. If she wants to be single, her loss right? Be brave and move on. Don't be her doormat, because other people who are more important will lose respect for you.
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