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writes:Well I really need help on getting over this cuz I can't take the feeling anymore. * no i didnt get broken up with lol * so, i started talkin to this guy yesterday that is my sisters friend. he havent talked in forever and it felt good to. he wants to hang out this week and he calls me idk love names haha. he tells me really sweet stuff that he likes about me too. but when i talked to him last night my stomach got butterflies like 100 times worse and the feeling of nausea too. its still is bothering me today and i dont no how to get rid of it. if i think one thing about him ill get the feeling. its keeping me from sleeping too. i toss and turn a lot. am i feeling this way because i havent talked to him in so long and hes a couple years older than me and id be hanging out with him for the first time alone? plz help also tell me how to get rid of the feeling and how to relax myself so i dont think of it. thanks. :/ Reply to this Question
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (21 February 2010):
 hahaha... didn't realise it was you.. I could have been a lot more adult with my advice, your a clever kid, I like your answers to question very much.
Don't worry, your just crushing, it'll go away.. lol
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reader, Miamine +, writes (21 February 2010):
I'm sorry honeypie, but we can't. You are growing up, your turning into a young lady now. That feeling is what we call a "crush". You think he's handsome, he makes your body feel funny, you think about him.. you like him... It will go away as you get older, or maybe it won't and you'll live with it until you find another guy who you like much more.
If this guy is older, he'll understand. It's not a good idea to get close to this guy, he's a lot older, and he'll probably want to do sex things that you are not ready for. He notices that you like him, and that's why he's extra nice to you and says them sweet talking words. The way you behave makes him feel good about himself, it's nice when someone likes you.
Is it possible to talk to your mother or sister about these feelings. They can explain better than I can, and they'll give you a big hug, because everyone feels like this as they get older, they will understand and they will help you when your around him.
Congratulations.. go and talk to your mother, she'll be so happy to know that her little baby is growing up and become a young lady at last.. :)
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