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30-35,
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writes:I'm confused about my situation. I'm trying to give up but I can't What would you do? I'm a girl in love with her best friend. We have gone out before (On and off for about 4 years) But this stop last year and we became best friends. I dump him because I thought he was in love with someone else. Was told by a friend that fancy him and I didn't know she did. I was in shock and panic. Anyway we became the best est of friends since we already know everything about each other. Around Christmas he ask out my a friend of mine which left my heart broken. I didn't know it would hit me so hard but it really did! I was in tears for about 3 days till I couldn't cry anymore, I tried to clear my head of it. I went back to normal in front of him (Even though just looking at him was painful. ) Then he confessed to me that he doesn't see her in that way. She ask him to see how it went. It lasted a week. I was happy but sad for my friend. I decided to leave how I feel for a bit considering my friend was heart broken, but now he says he's fallen for another girl BUT he's never talked to her in real life. They see each other like passing in the hallway to say hi but they mostly talk on facebook. It seems less these days though. Still I know she like him back (I don't understand this relationship at all) Everyday he reminds me of how close we are and that we are best friends. It's nice to know he thinks so highly of me and treats me different from other but it sort of hurts. I'm really confused. I think I'm getting my signals crossed. Just the other week we and a few friends went to a cafe, and there's a hotel right next to it, when everyone went we where left by ourself's and he said I wish we could just book in and not go home tonight. Don't you? I said yea! I just joked after though and said yeah watching tv all night. Fun! I don't think he meant it too in that way. He's too innocent. I'm confused what am I to do. Give up. :s I've tried believe me. I know I can't make him love but it still hurts. :'( Claudia x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 February 2010):
Sounds like all you girls fancy a guy who doesn't care about any of you. You and he were on/off, so he wasn't Mr Right for you. He and your friend went out, so he wasn't Mr Right for her either. You would do better to just focus entirely on your own life right now. Throw yourself into your life and have fun. When you do meet your Mr Right, you'll know it. But this guy just sounds like too much of a player.
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