A
female
age
26-29,
*arou
writes:I was in love with my best friend for 2 years or more, but then i just realized that he didn't actually love me as a more than a sister.So i tried to get over him and i did for a while and fell in love one of my friends and he asked me out one day so i accepted because he was really sweet and gorgeous.Meanwhile my best friend fell in love with another of my friend. the same girl he liked last year.And so he asked her out but she said no because she didn't want to be in a relationship for a while.i got jealous even though i love someone else i felt a little jealous, my best friend thinks that she loves him and tells me that she loves him and adores him and stuff but when i asked her if they were going out she told me " eww noooo no no i don't like him more than a brother !"this is really complicated because i don't want to tell him the truth because he will be heart broken but at the same time he has to know the truth.I cant get over him i like two boys now and im feeling weird these days. My boyfriend is a shy guy so this makes me weird because i don't really like shy people.What can i do it's becoming worse as specially i dont want to be jealous. please help its really hurting me i don't know what to do . Thankyou xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): The way I see it is this way your best friend doesnot look
upon you like a girlfriend but as just a best friend.
Your best mate is seems is smitten with this new girl and as
hard as it is for you the quicker you accept this and move
on, the easier it will be.
Its hard breaking to really like someone or love them and they
dont feel the same but that life and beleive you by the time
most people have got to 30 this has normally happened at least
once.
If it is helps most friendships are stronger and some last longer
than some relationships especially at your young age.
If your boyfriend not for you dont be with him just for the sake of it.
In life with have many different types of loves - remember
to enjoy life.
best wishes
Moonstone
xx
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male
reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 February 2010):
No he doesn't have to know the truth. If you tell him the truth, your friend who told you won't like you, and your best friend won't like you either. Focus on your boyfriend. Don't say anything to your best friend.
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