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writes:Well,mi ex and I had been together for 2 years but still talked for 2 years after.He had a girlfriend but me being dumb and in love,didnt care.He was emotinally abusive towards me and i didnt realize until it was too late.I decided to cut him off for a while because the abuse started to get worse.For instince after he blamed me for making him made he would make up lies like he just had sex with somebody to hurt me and he would threaten to kill himself if i didnt do what he says.I've always known that he had mental issues,but i loved him so much that I looked past all of that.I just want to get over him because i know that he is not worth mi thoughts or mi heart.I'm sorry this is so long but I just want relief from all the pain that I endored.Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (25 March 2010):
 Keep yourself busy ,go to the gym and do workouts and go out with your friends and enjoy the fun with them. In time you will forget those pains and sorrows.
Forgive him and let him go...Time is a great healer.
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reader, _Katy_Did_ +, writes (25 March 2010):
 That sounds a lot like what I went through. Trust me, it gets better. In time, you'll lose that love you have for him and find someone who isn't insane. You'll get over it. Next year, or maybe even a few months from now, you're not even going to care. Just hang in there.
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