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writes:Hey, I'm bisexual and I dont know how to tell my parents. There's a part of me telling me not to tell them in case they don't agree with that type of thing. As far as I know most of my family are homophobics so I think if I told my parents, eventually the rest of my family will find out some how. Please give me sme advice o what to do. It would be appreciatedThanks Reply to this Question
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reader, HarryFlashman  +, writes (22 February 2010):
I think you will need to tell them some day, but you might wait until you are in a serious relationship that you need for them to accept. The concrete nature of the relationship will make it harder for them to pretend it isn't real.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 February 2010):
 There is no need to announce to the whole world or tell your parents that you are bisexual.
Just keep it to yourself. It does not give you any added advantage but will only invite ridicule and scorn.
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reader, Lexi2010 +, writes (21 February 2010):
 I know exactly wat ur going through. Im Bisexual too, and I told my parents, and they just tuned me out, they didnt want to listen to anything I had to say... I REGRET telling them... So maybe telling them RIGHT now is not the best thing for you to do... Im ALWAYS here 4 u to talk to...Remember to be proud of who u R.. I am...
Here 4 ya..
~Lexi
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather +, writes (20 February 2010):
 Why would you feel the need to tell them? If you had sexual feelings for a boy, would you feel the need to tell them that? Give it a year or two 'til you properly sort your true feelings out. Then, if you still feel the same, just lead your life your way and let the family slowly but surely draw their own conclusions. Your life - your decision, and good luck with it!
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