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26-29,
anonymous
writes:okkayy to begin i met this guy a while ago and the more time i was with him and talked to him i continued to fall for him. but throught that time we had our ups and downs with his ex's getting in the way. But I was willing to deal with that because of all te feelings i had for him. i even lost my virginity to him..he is so special to me yet no one seems to understand. my 2 best friends when they found out i gave head to him freaked and called me a easy whore..and it made me feel awful because im not like that at all. i did it bcuase its him i wouldnt go around doing that to random people..so i never told my friends about how i had sex with him because they wouldnt understand. i have also been haveing lots of problems at home. and last night it got so badd my brother locked me out of the house at night, i had nowhere to go and i knew my so called friends wouldnt take me in..i called some other people but either no one was home or they were busy so i called the guy im in love with(lets call him Daniel) so i call daniel and ask him if i can spend the night at his house (and i didnt tell him my situation either) he said ill call yu back and let you know. in the end he said he doesnt think so. but i went on facebook and i was tellin my other friend, lets call her carol, what happend and how i might spend the night at his house. but i 4got my one of my other friends who called me a whore had my password and apparently she went on and saw my messages. so eventually i got my bedroom window opend and i got inside, so i got to sleep at home..not what i wanted since as soon as i got in all the fighting continued..but finally manged to fall asleep and the next morning i wake up to a text from my friend who has my password saying exactly this 'did yu have fun sleeping over daniels? slut.' yeaa thats wat i have to deal with i really dont kno what to do with them now. help me please..im crying as i write this please..
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (20 February 2010):
 where were your parents, or the responsible adult, when you were locked out of home? Why didn't you try to call them to get let back in?
Why give anybody else your passwords to anything? Surely you have seen, read and heard all the warnings about keeping passwords and pin numbers to yourself?
I agree with "my destiny" it appears you don't live in a safe environment, talk to a school councellor or a minister, social worker or the police about your living arrangements.
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (20 February 2010):
 I'm sorry this all happened to you. But it's really none of your friend's business who you're with or who you perform sexual acts with. Anyway are they really your friends? A real friend wouldn't say that kind of stuff to you. Drop them, be around people who really care about you... take yourself away from this unneeded stress.
And about the whole being kicked out of your house thing, i don't know what goes on in your home but it seems as if it's not a safe environment. Maybe you need to contact someone. Good luck
-a.e
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