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writes:Im scared my bf with think Im a slut. so Im seeing anew guy and I like him alot he likes me to but. I guess Im a diffrent type of girl compared to alot my age. I have had sex with one person. I dont really party. I dont hookup etc. My bf loves that Im not sluty and I dont do these things so we are taking things slow. but I want to have sex, lol it sounds weird but I def want to just start going at it, but Im afraid if I have sex with him now he will think Im easy and just like the rest.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): If he's even halfway assertive then all you have to do is not send him any signals to stop. He'll get horny and push it soon enough.
If he's really never even pushing things into physical directions then that is a bit more complicated. You have to figure out why that is. Is he really that shy & unsure that you're game for it? Is he so inexperienced that it makes it a big step for him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010): i understand you completely, you see i am the last child my mother had and i am scared of ever having sex so im known as the saint of the family and one day i felt like letting go and you know get a boyfriend or something i was terrified but turns out everyone around me understood because having caution about how you do things dosent change the fact that your human and that you have human emmotions so just ask your b/f. just guessing but maybe seeing how your boy friend knows your personality hes just being respectful but he propably wants to do ask too. hope said the right things to help.
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