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*risheyes83
writes:Hi,Im hoping someone has some good advice to help me out!Im 26 and totally, head over heels, in love with one of my friends. He's 27 with 2 children and a ex gf who he's never denyed he'll always love. Problem is now Im the great friend, of 2 years, who he met on a dating site!! We never quite had the discussion of "I like you as a friend" and have slept together a good few times.I just dont know if he finds me attractive, if I should cut him out my life or what!!So frustrated and hurt. A while back I miscarried his child and he left me to deal with it - now its never mentioned but he has said sorry and would do anything for me if I needed help. I know deep down I should do better but theres just this spark there I cant leave. Can anyone help? x
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reader, irisheyes83 +, writes (20 February 2010):
irisheyes83 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks Anonymous lady, I dont thnk there isn't any feelings BUT not the feelings I'd like there to be. Sometimes you need someone to tell you straight. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2010): He doesnt love you he still has feelings for his ex so there will not be any real emotion there. In his eyes you really are just a friend. A friend with benefits. Guys still have needs. Dont let him use you . Cuz thats what he's doing. Youre playing the rebound girl.
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